Cades-

I know it's hard I have the same problem but try not to let your mind wander. My W even though is not as far away as your H. (we still live in the same house). Said some real hurtful things to me also. She also does not acknowledge the A or that she did anything wrong. I may be a LBS thing to want our S to say "hey I made a mistake I’m sorry". I wish I could hear that from My S also. But It may also be a WAW or WAH thing that if they don't mention it it's like it never happened.
I don't know. Good luck in September. And go with the flow.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know