Naked in the Cabbage Patch

[MJontheMend]

I feel like cr*p. My 2bx continues to make me feel terrible about myself even after abandoning ship like he has. In one part of the letter he is basically yelling at me for not getting the revised divorce paperwork processed quickly enough and he writes "For purposes of stamina, I recommend a steady diet of hoagie for the duration. If we can get 12 yr.old (mean nickname for me) to take a nap in short order, maybe we can hope for greater attention to detail and accuracy" and he calls me an "artless wretch" because I tried to prove my love through "Acts of Service". How can I even respond to this kind of communication? Should I write him back "Okay, your letter made me feel bad for being me and made me cry so now I am sharing your misery. Does that make you feel closer to me? Is that what you want? "

I don't think that I should have to cry all the time in order to prove that I have feelings.