I'd let her call you, but i wasn't clear on why you thought calling her would help you keep the house. Is it that you could solidify/codify thru divorce her statement she'd give it to you or let it go?
I'd probably still let her call. Isn't saving the M more important that staying in the house?
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link