Why do these things happen IV

[789]

[quote=FaithLOVEHope]I know what you mean it does not matter how much we try it looks like we are not noticed...
I can't believe that we aren't though..they just can't say anything.

789, it may have been that your W just wanted to see if you'd GO on the weekend, or go to work. You did the right thing. Yeah, you want your W to give you credit, give you confirmation, give you love for your acts, but she's not ready for that OR is going to run a few more tests before she's ready to let her guard down to you. Who knows?!?!?! You just have to be there for her and your son when the opportunities present themselves and learn patience (yes, join me will you? ). Yep, it sucks. it's not fun, "why can't she just COME BACK NOW?!?!?!?" LOL, I know the feeling, believe me, I know the feeling. It'll all be good in the end, and if you play your cards right, you'll look back at this time and the refiner's fire that created the fantastic marriage you have at that time.

Well I did go, that part I do not regret. Yes I want my wife to give me credit, hell I would take any credit she would give me. I know she won't they are not suppose to or whatever. But not one comment on time being dry, not one about wieght loss, not one about the amount of time I have been spending with son, not one thank you for all the money I have shelled out so she could think. Test are fine if that is what she wants or needs to do, but I want to look up at the scoreboard just once and see that I am not hitless after 9 innings. Patience is not one of my virtues, I am being very patient whenever I am around her I think, but in my own head, not a bit.

Thinking I am gonna get shot down for all that ^^^^^