I feel exactly like you. I am done too. My H is still living with OW and she can have him. He honestly was never that great of an H before, and he at the bottom of the barrel now. I love him very much and stood behind my vows, but after eight months of him putting me through h$ll, we are done. I told him if he can't leave OW, there is nothing more for us to discuss. I agree if H really thinks that he is going to be happy with her, be with her and leave me the h$ll alone. The truth is that he is not happy with OW but can't bring himself to change anything so he just stalls the divorce. Isn't life grand!
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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