"But I accept where he is, and will go from there."
Good, by why negate those words with these actions: "I marked up all of the books I have that talk about finding the feelings of love again, the feelings he keeps saying can never come back. I know that he probably won't look at them (and I said as much), but that I would leave them there for him, anyway."
You are still trying to fix him. You are still trying to make him want what you want. You are still discounting...
