Wel, I remember reading that physical separation is actually the road to D, so maybe you can work on this alone while you are still underthe same roof. I also remember how counseling can also be damaging to DBing.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."