And having sex with a guy because he's cute (i.e., because you're physically attracted to him) and for no other reason doesn't make you a slut.
What does make you a slut? I'm not being a smart*ss. I really kind of wonder what the answer is. I remember reading a humorous bit once along the lines of "A slut is the girl who will have sex with everyone but you." I guess I kind of think that if you think that sex is a good thing then you can never be a slut because a slut is a bad thing. It's a matter of attitude rather than behavior. However, your behavior or the results/consequences of your behavior can affect your attitude so you can't be heedless.
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Having sex with a guy that you feel sorry for, but you're not physically attracted to... well... what WOULD that make you? (If you did it.)
Well, I KNOW that I can't do it. I guess if I could I would be some sort of delusional martyr.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
