I'm sorry that you feel so negatively about yourself. But when I give a compliment to you, I'm saying it sincerely and I don't appreciate you rejecting it so harshly. If you could instead let me know that your not in a good mood or you would like to be left alone, and I will give you your space.
Definitely remember though, whenever giving a boundary, make sure you can deal with it.
For example, if you DID by chance say the above, you better make sure you don't take anything personal if he says "I'm not in the mood right now", or "I'd rather be alone now".
Or what would you rather him do? I'm not sure I'd like those phrases either!
There's probably something better he could say though, but I can't think of anything right now.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
