Oldtimer, thanks for this: "It sounds like you don't feel good for some reason" and the "Maybe I'm off base but..." I mean.. when he's speaking this way it's pretty obvious something's wrong, but it's hard to address/say that without saying "You are having a bad day" - know what I mean? Especially since I really WAS blind to a lot of his emotions before unless they were extreme - this lets me acknowledge that yes, I see it, and I do care... but it still doesn't excuse turning it around.
Ali - thanks, it's great to hear that it's slowly falling into place for you.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
