Do you know her Love Language? If so, start speaking it. Be subtle, do little things. If you don't know it, learn it.
Anything you can do to help her feel loved will help her level of happiness go up. Then yours will go up as well, and the kids' too. There's nothing better you and she can do to help your kids feel loved than to love each other.
I'm glad she didn't move to TX, that's a great thing. It'll help a lot I think. Good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...