I had to think about your question for a minute.

Right now, I don't have a group of girlfriends that I ever sit around talking about sex w/.

Also, when we were back in Tucson, I had a big "mom's group" and we would hang out a lot and have mom nights out, etc. If I recall correctly, we never did sit around and talk about sex w/ our H. The few times I do recall it coming up, I'm of the impression that, honestly, what we are talking about all the time here may not necessarily be a HD/LD thing -- it's a H / W thing. I think it happens a lot more often than people realize that the W ends up not wanting sex as much as the H.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10