When I was LD and out with the girls... I have to say that one in 10 are probably HD. And yes, when we started griping, those girls would just keep their mouths shut.
Most women who are LD and talk about sex only confirm for each other how 'rough' they've got it. And they usually man bash... so they are not accepting blame AT ALL for the condition of their sex lives... they are justifying it... to themselves and each other.