Well....Here I am 16 months after all this mess started. W moved out 6 months ago after we were "in house" separated for about 6 months. For the last 16 months she's basically had nothing to do with me. For the last three months each month she has had to dip into our joint checking account just to make ends meet. Her lease is now coming up to an end. Her rent is going up. About 3 weeks ago she started kinda warming up to me and dropping hints about coming home. About this same time I had pretty much decided to move on with my life. Even taken my ring off and started meeting other people. To make a long story short, now she says she wants to try and make things work, but I have some doubt as to her sincereity. She says its not about the money butI just don't know if I believe her, not after all the lieing she has done. I just don't know anymore......