nextsteps_4us - think my hubby came under your point 4!!I have ordered a couple of the bks recommended by people.

Thanks to all of you for your comments and book advice etc. Sara and limbo, I think my sitch sounds so similar to yours.

It has been such a comfort to log on this evening and find that I have responses, (and such great ones at that), to help me along. I really wished I had found this site a year ago. Would love to talk and keep in contact with some of you more but not quite sure how to do that!!

Thanks soooooo.... much to all of you for the life line you are giving me.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength