Nothing rests on the answer - I'm just curious, s'all.
I think I read something in ntl's thread about how, when she's discussing sex with her friends, she just kinda keeps quiet about her lack of intimacy with her LD H and doesn't really get involved in the conversation (I think I'm remembering this right... ).
Anyway, my question is: when you girls get together and talk about sex with your H's, what do LD W's say? Do they pretend that everything's OK, or are they straight up and simply say that they haven't had sex with their H for 2 years (as in my case)? And if they are honest about it, how do they explain it away, bearing in mind it's them who doesn't want the sex?
Just thinking out aloud.
Oh, and BTW, my W is reading the SSM book as we speak. Which, of course, came as a bit of a shock to me.
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