also, if you could focus on yourself ONLY, (plus kids, but not your wife) and what YOU want, isn't that GAL?
Plus it keeps you out of the neutral mode, which prevents forward motion...as we all know...just a thought. I do know when I began making plans for happiness with the assumption of a divorce or no h, (one overseas teaching job in Florence Italy, for example) h got more "active" so to speak. I don't know if that was the trigger--I really don't know. BUT I was starting to get excited about MY future...and I was getting open to being happy without him.
Some days it's hard for me to Un-do that, if you know what I mean. Like I've gotta back up now.
Later buddy, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
