Thanks F21. Yeah...she is. And I'm kind of wrestling with this a bit. I think there is no mistaking that I'm attracted to her and I have little doubt that she is attracted to me. She sent me an email yesterday (before our talk and a big part of why I had the talk) saying that she was envios of my W and that my W was very lucky. And there have been a lot of those types of comments. So...I felt it necessary to let her know what was going on...although she probably had already guessed that something was up.

I made it very clear that if my W wanted to work on the M, that depending on where I was, that I would probably at least try and work things out with her. I still feel obligated to "try" I guess. So as long as she understands that going into this...and as long as I don't move any faster than I am comfortable with...I think we'll be ok.

But you are also talking to a guy who was just...uhhh..."re-born"...so that temptation to move more quickly is...well..there. Gotta think with the big head is all.


Scott: 38
X: 39
M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
S9, D8, S6
MLC/EA/PA
Bomb: 8/10/06 S: 01/07 Asked for D: 05/07 Mediation 07/07

"And when all's been said and done
It's the things that are given, not won
Are the things that you want"
- Gomez; See the World