Thanks F21. Yeah...she is. And I'm kind of wrestling with this a bit. I think there is no mistaking that I'm attracted to her and I have little doubt that she is attracted to me. She sent me an email yesterday (before our talk and a big part of why I had the talk) saying that she was envios of my W and that my W was very lucky. And there have been a lot of those types of comments. So...I felt it necessary to let her know what was going on...although she probably had already guessed that something was up.
I made it very clear that if my W wanted to work on the M, that depending on where I was, that I would probably at least try and work things out with her. I still feel obligated to "try" I guess. So as long as she understands that going into this...and as long as I don't move any faster than I am comfortable with...I think we'll be ok.
But you are also talking to a guy who was just...uhhh..."re-born"...so that temptation to move more quickly is...well..there. Gotta think with the big head is all.