I think it's okay for you to be "available" during anni, but you will almost set yourself up, so just be careful. It's quite possible she won't want to see you that day. it could be possible she has tremendous guilt on that day, who knows.
Definitely right now, you can't exactly ask her what she needs, cause she probably really doesn't know and it's going to change every minute. So yes, you are in a fog, but God's given you a lamp and you will find your way out.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
