Any wisdom on how I can convince him that having my space right now will be worth while?
Truth is there is probably nothing you can say. Just as there is nothing he can say to make you change how you are currently feeling.
From what you have written, I would venture to guess, that your H is exactly where I was 2 years ago, when my W asked me for a S. I was desperate and was able to talk her into staying, but now am unable to do it again and now in a worse sitch, than if I had gone along with it 2 years ago and woke up then and worked for permenant changes. The R was much more repairable back then than it is now.
Me: 41 W: 38 Son7 M 13 years 3/07 Bomb "This marriage isn't working for me anymore" S 5/26/07 Thread
