So confusing huh? Just realize, there are so many right and wrongs ways that we can't always know for sure unless we try them.

And don't feel naive about Rs. Most of us don't know how to do it! It's all a learning experience, and everyone R's are not the same.

We know that friendships are very important to H, and obviously he it is important for YOU to have them also and getting together with them, not just posting to them. ;\) Cuz you know you have LOTS of friends out here. \:\)

I also think that right now may not be the time to try to "work" on the M. After the H discussion a week ago or whenever it was, I think it's best that you work on yourself getting out with friends, work on not worrying about H or "fixing"(if you think your doing that) and get back to where you guys were when H came back.

if H acts in that down tone again just keep it short and maybe just let him wallow in his dumb mood until he gets over it. You don't need to let his mood ruin yours. you know, like Alimari said she lets her H do and then he eventually apologizes for his bad mood.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."