I agree -- I cannot type w/ those stupid things -- can't imagine lifting weights, etc. w/ them. Plus you have to go every 2 wks or even sooner to get the "fills" done. Lots of $$$ there -- very high maintenance.

Choc, I'm still in shock at how things have turned the corner w/ you guys. I really thought she was going to see things 'your way' from the beginning and be willing to work on your M w/ you. She's got to be having an MLC. I can't imagine that she's behaving this way and knows that your children know what she's doing!!! That's what gets me. It's one thing if she doesn't think she's 'in love' w/ you anymore and wants to see if the grass is greener, but she is being so very selfish, she can't be thinking straight!!

I just wanted to say you are doing all the right things, and I just hope that your heart, mind, emotions, etc. are truly doing ok. I know you probably have your 'moments,' but I truly hope you're doing ok w/ all of this.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10