Thank you for the lovely post. And no I won't yell at you ,, I am FAR too sweet for that. Thank you for giving me "persmission" so to speak for reminding me that doing what I have been doing and not trying to fix him is right. And that 24/7 remark too,, spot on! He even tried to blame me so to speak for the weather changing. Just a bit ago! A rain storm changing into a severe storm ~ Give me a break. And you know what I let it go. I just have gotten sucked in too deep like you said... and the post re :alcoholics I know it is not my problem and so when I read it, it reminded me of the DB concept so onward and forward w/o saying a word or trying to Mother him~ I already have 5 kids! BND~ you have helped me a lot. I was struggling with this and my friends tried to give me good advice but I see now that I can do this without saying a word. And keep working on my Happiness one day at a time. I am happy actually. I just have allowed him to dictate it for far too long.
Enough is enough. Thanks again sweetie. God bless...
,, I am FAR too sweet for that. 
