For some reason, something's just not clicking for me. For example - "If you feel like crap, it is your problem" - isn't that telling him how he feels?? Similar to "Sorry you are having a bad day" - telling him what kind of day he's having - which I also know isn't "right" but it's where I get stuck repeatedly.
If he's in a bad mood and responds that way, isn't calling him on it kind of the opposite of validating?
What am I missing??
Sorry if I seem dense - I have just never learned this stuff and appreciate the help.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
