If you have not already found it, this is another DB forum that's more specific to your sitch (Tho, of COURSE!, you can stay in Newcomers as well. We [as LBS - Left Behind Spouses] can offer you some great insight & support 'from the other side' of your coin as well.

DB: Help, I'm Thinking of Leaving: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=66&page=1

Good luck, and I'm glad you're here. j

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D