How do I know if we're ready for piecing?

[NikB]

As someone who let her H move back in too soon - please think hard about what you want/need from him before you do this.

For example - do you need him to recommit to your M? Agree to go to counseling? Are you two going to work on the M/R together? How?

I really wish I had done this. DON'T pressure him by hitting him with any of this yet, but please do think through what you need. And then if/when he asks to move back make sure you ask very clearly for what you need.