Yeah I know it man, I personally have nothing against this guy. Your right I am angry about the whole thing, but I defintely dont have any issues against people with weight problems, I was fat my whole life up until the last year. I just dont understand it, one thing we did together was change our lifestyles and lose tons of weight together. I am bitter over the whole divorce thing anyways, and then for her to want to file on our anniversery just seems like a low blow. She even took her last vactation day of the whole year to do it on this day. She apologized to me last night saying she didnt even realize it until yesterday, but there is no way I believe her.
Her step mom asked me how I was doing last night, and I told her pretty bad. Then I told her what my wife was doing, and as it turns out she hasnt even told her family, I guess she is ashamed of it. She knows they all love me and even though they wont take a stand against her, she knows they dont agree with it. Her step mom even said why in the world is she doing this. Then said trust me, she will regret doing this for the rest of her life. And this is a woman that left a good man in the first place, then ended up with an abusive drug addict, then finally ended with a my wife's dad who is a saint.
I just simply cannot believe this, I always had hope that she was just going thru some of her personal issues and we would end up being ok and I would be a success story. I just wanna grab her and shake her until she realizes just how much I love her.
