I totally agree that you should have the M bed and she should be on the couch or elsewhere. Is she still trying to act like nothing is going on with this guy? If she wants a D and is making plans to move on with her life, why is she sneaking around with the cell phone and such? I don't understand that part. It's almost like she is getting off on it somehow. Blech. Why not just say, "Choc, I want out. Let's act civil until we hammer out the details." I know easier said than done but what is going on now seems so disrespectful. LFL