After things were looking up all of last week, my wife informs me Sunday that on Tuesday (today) she is going to the court house and filing for a divorce. She says either I go up there and file it with her (she wants to do this without a lawyer) or she will go and get a lawyer today and file herself. But get this, TODAY IS OUR 6TH ANNIVERSERY!!! WHAT A COLD HEARTED BITCH!!! I suppose just like everything else with her it has to be as dramatic as possible. I am done fighting for and caring for someone that would do something so mean to me. She also informed me that while she has not yet started seeing this guy, there is some new guy that started working where she works last week that she has been talking to and says she might want to start seeing him, so I guess she is filing for the divorce to make it seem ok for her to start dating someone else. I guess this guy is a 5' 4" 300 pound tub of lard, hahaha. Never been married, never had kids, and probably from the sounds of it still a virgin. Its like you have got to be kidding me. One of the things we have done together and lose weight and try to set a healthy lifestyle example for our kids. She has lost close to 100 pounds, I have lost close to 150 pounds now, and she wants to start seeing some short fat peice of [censored] that just started working in her little sweat shop factory. I bet he's a real winner.
Thats it, I give. I have to admit I still love her, but me detaching the last couple months has made this a bit easier. I have cried my eyes out, but I just can't deal with her mental issues and mental abuse any longer. It will not be easy, but I will try to be nice and civil with her for the kids. I guess if she wanted me to get over her filing for a divorce on our anniversery would do it!
