Still wanting some input on going dark when you have things that will force interactions.
I could use a hug and prayer today.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Thanks FLH. I guess I just don't have a whole lot of hope today.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
W's bday. She spent all day running around with the OM. (D12 called and "told" on her). I wasn't allowed to see her because she "simply didn't have time."
Now it's bad enough that I missed Father's Day with my kids.
But now they are all out right now(Including in-laws) to dinner. D even called me to ask what was it that I ordered last time I was there (we shared so she loved it). D is upset that OM is there.
I'm starting to wonder if my hope isn't just an unhealthy obsession.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I'm starting to wonder if my hope isn't just an unhealthy obsession.
I do not think so, I have wondered that many times myself, we love our spouses, that is why we do what we are doing now. True at some point it would be an unhealthy obsession, what that time point is, I have no clue. After this weekend I was having that same thought, but said no to myself and said it is just the way things are at the present moment, give her time. Sucks but what else can we truly do at the moment.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
That is a mixed signal. Why did she have to le you know that? Does she seek comfort because she is filled with regret? Maybe she is guilty because it was Father's Day? You are not obsessed. Just stay focused and positive.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Very hard to stay positive with all the negatives.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I agree NM, I keep going back and forth because it is hard to stay positive alot of the time. But I suppose we have to just keep working our way thru this the best we can.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
