I am going to the counseling appt tonight. I have read DB and DR and put them to work last time. I have validated everything during the reconciliation. I believe it has just come to the point where she WANTS to leave. With the least little thing, she wants to leave. I have tried to make her comfortable and be able to trust me. I have been an open book. Nothing hidden.
I am not saying I will no longer fight for my M and kids. I can no longer fight with her about things I am not doing. She is the one doing things and I am waiting for her to stop. How do I go about that? I can issue an ultimatum, and I know what the answer will be.
We'll just see what happens at counseling and go from there.