Wait a minute. You two are still sleeping in the same bed when it is clear she is in the midst of an A? I figured you were doing a "War of the Roses" type scenario where you had the house blocked off with his side/her side. Maybe Nop is advising you to keep things as normal as possible? I don't understand that though. I'd be in my own bed if my S was not acting like we were M. But that is me. I give you some major credit for being able to pull that one off. And about the phone...I'd be tempted to hide that sucker just to see her go ape sh!t. LFL
