nic....ISLH always has great stuff. All I can say is...don't get close to the mistakes I made with the IL's. My MIL was totally supportive of me...now seems to have pulled back a bit. My Father's Day card was not signed 'Love' which I believe it was in the past. Bottom line: blood IS thicker than water. I have stopped any R convesation with them and now get separate cards for occasions as my W doesn't seem to keep me in the 'loop'.

Whatever happens, you cannot make any judgments about yourself based on what direction your IL's take. Stay the great mom you are..keep the respect you have for your IL's. Always stay the 'attractive woman' that you are in front of them.

As for the kids, I was stuck in traffice this morning because I had to give my S6 Motrin and a breathing treatment...you're not alone.

Stay tuff. I support you.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;