I think I missed an opportunity last night. The W was sitting in the other room watching her soaps (like we don’t have enough drama). Any who I had to ask her what Time I was supposed to pick up our son on Tuesday. So I walked in and asked her how she was feeling. She said “OK” I said “Just OK” She said “yea” I asked what time to pick our son up. She told me about 3:30. She then asked me how my day at work went being that I was gone for a week. Asked if everything was screw up. I told her not more than usual. But it was a good day at work. (Here is where I think I blew it) I asked her how her day went. She said she and her coworker (This co-worker is a female friend that she has known for years. The vacationed together before we were married) anyway she said her and “L” were having “mood problems” I asked what you mean. She said “L” is dealing with a lot of stuff and I am dealing with a lot of stuff and we both are moody. Well I left it at that and said “that’s to bad” and I left the room. Question….
I feel I should have asked her if she wanted to talk about it. I don’t know why I didn’t think if it at the time except I have been trying to give her space and don’t ask her anything.
Should I write her a note telling her that?
“I sorry I felt like you needed someone to talk to the other night I was not there. Please If you every need to talk about anything. I am here I am just trying to give you space.
Is this detaching?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
