We didn't really spend very much time on Sitch talk (neither mine, nor hers ), but she made a gen'l statement about H realizing after they were D'd/apart their R had more Good than Bad, and that he wanted his life w/her (again).
In our cases (DBing Fools that we are!) bringing them back (no matter how long post-Bomb or whatever) HAS to be more of the give them space, be the best US we can be, continue the for-ever changes of 180's, GALing, PMA - all the while leaving the door open (a crack at least), and letting the WAS come to the realization that they were (or at least COULD BE!) wrong all on their own.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D
), but she made a gen'l statement about H realizing after they were D'd/apart their R had more Good than Bad, and that he wanted his life w/her (again). 
