i guess thats why I choose to believe this is MLC...my H was never selfish.....it has been like he has become a totally opposite of who he was.....saying things one never thought you would here him say....low self esteem...definitely...the mask he wore was to hide that, ...always talking the talk and walking the walk of a made self assured person....caught up with him in the end..and its what made him a target for OW who was on the hunt for a meal ticket away from her H. Guess that is what makes the whole damn thing so sad. He was a wonderful person that i loved from the depths of my heart. I too think he wont have what it takes to face up to the "wrong" and do the work with in to surface.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest