I can totally understand your stance. But in this fairytale story, I believe that you're just starting the next chapter of your novel. I know you haven't totally closed the book so I'll just leave it at that.
The job loss although the timing sucks, is an opportunity. I recall that when I was unemployed and looking for a job, you talked about all of your connections. That alone will land you a job in no time. Add that to your determination and you're strength of character, and you'll be choosing jobs based on what you want; what is right for you when it is right for you.
I wish you the best on this trip. To enjoy it for yourself and with Carrie. I am sure your charming self will have more stories to tell as this fairytale continues....
Me: 41 H: 42 Married: 13Y, together 24 Kids: S11, S9, D6 Bomb: 7/11/06, now piecing