Had counseling last night with my W and her counselor. This is D counseling. You have me, and then my W and her counselor. Her counselor seems to be backing my W getting the D and trying to help us make the best out of this sitch. Her counselor is telling me that I have never meet my W needs and ERC she told you she would never open-up to you or be vulnerable again to you that is why you are not seeing her grieve the A. Yeah....I should have kept my mouth shut about me feeling the A is still ongoing....I was going to... I was actually going to be leaving the office in a minute and I had to open my big mouth.
I was actually pretty upset when I left the office knowing that this Christian counselor is not trying to get us to reconcile. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. It felt like she was accepting my W choice and is going to help us make the best of it.
How/When do I get to the point where I accept this and tell my W that her decision is OK, when I do not believe D is an option?
When my girls get married, How do I tell them that D is not an option?
I need a break from all of this. Wouldn't it be nice if we could hit the pause button on life so we can take a break and recharge.
