BND, thanks for the post, and I know... I float up and down just as much as she does sometimes...... I'm not making any decisions today, I have plenty of time for that and I will remain consistant in my behaviors so that she can see them over time.
Rob, no they are not mutually exclusive, however my point was that it cannot simply be because of her fear of loosing me. It has to be for both reasons.
I can totally understand your stance. But in this fairytale story, I believe that you're just starting the next chapter of your novel. I know you haven't totally closed the book so I'll just leave it at that.
The job loss although the timing sucks, is an opportunity. I recall that when I was unemployed and looking for a job, you talked about all of your connections. That alone will land you a job in no time. Add that to your determination and you're strength of character, and you'll be choosing jobs based on what you want; what is right for you when it is right for you.
I wish you the best on this trip. To enjoy it for yourself and with Carrie. I am sure your charming self will have more stories to tell as this fairytale continues....
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My contact at Aramark let me know that there is a position open in Philadelphia. I believe they will be setting up an interview for me when I get back from my trip.
Philly is only about an hour and a half from where I grew up so I would probably be interested in moving there.
I went to get the cottonballs, but there were bugs everywhere Lissie...... Cockroaches, spiders, centipedes, all kinds of creepy crawly bugs so I couldnt get to the cotton balls.
Yes Philly, interesting stuff isn't it....
I too love the butterflies. I may not sleep the rest of the week.....yay.....
Rob, no they are not mutually exclusive, however my point was that it cannot simply be because of her fear of loosing me. It has to be for both reasons.
Fair enough!
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