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BND, thanks for the post, and I know... I float up and down just as much as she does sometimes...... I'm not making any decisions today, I have plenty of time for that and I will remain consistant in my behaviors so that she can see them over time.

Rob, no they are not mutually exclusive, however my point was that it cannot simply be because of her fear of loosing me. It has to be for both reasons.

Lissie, 3 more days baby...... woooohoooo

Jazz, still waiting for your response pal....

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Make sure you packed "everything" ;\)


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Lissie, I am completely packed other than toiletries at this point. Yes, I am getting those anxious feelings about going......

I did pack everything....absolutely......


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Hi Ian, finally getting caught up on your sitch.

I can totally understand your stance. But in this fairytale story, I believe that you're just starting the next chapter of your novel. I know you haven't totally closed the book so I'll just leave it at that.

The job loss although the timing sucks, is an opportunity. I recall that when I was unemployed and looking for a job, you talked about all of your connections. That alone will land you a job in no time. Add that to your determination and you're strength of character, and you'll be choosing jobs based on what you want; what is right for you when it is right for you.

I wish you the best on this trip. To enjoy it for yourself and with Carrie. I am sure your charming self will have more stories to tell as this fairytale continues....


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Funny you should post this Care.

My contact at Aramark let me know that there is a position open in Philadelphia. I believe they will be setting up an interview for me when I get back from my trip.

Philly is only about an hour and a half from where I grew up so I would probably be interested in moving there.

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Quote:
Philly is only about an hour and a half from where I grew up so I would probably be interested in moving there.


UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM wha?


AND..............................

You are getting the butterflies, i luv that feeling.


Did you pack the cotton balls?


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I went to get the cottonballs, but there were bugs everywhere Lissie...... Cockroaches, spiders, centipedes, all kinds of creepy crawly bugs so I couldnt get to the cotton balls.

Yes Philly, interesting stuff isn't it....

I too love the butterflies. I may not sleep the rest of the week.....yay.....


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um shut it.

AND.................

I have fairy princess, bug "made invisible" fairy dust spray.


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Originally Posted By: sofaraway
Rob, no they are not mutually exclusive, however my point was that it cannot simply be because of her fear of loosing me. It has to be for both reasons.
Fair enough!


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