Morning Bubbie Back and forth on the rollercoaster ride we go.....where it stops, nobody knows.
Just remember one thing, your moods and your feelings will change as you progress on this journey from hell.
Many times I was DONE! Only to find myself taking a time out and regain my strength to get up and fight again. Oh I feel so Rocky Balboa today!!!
But seriously, enjoy your trip, try not to think about anything other then YOU. Your wife is just not there yet, but in time, she may "get it".
You have come leaps and bounds and are so not the man that first started posting here 8 months ago. There is a softer side to you, a humility that wasn't there before which is rather pleasant.
She will notice your changes Ian, but you have to be patient. She is watching you like a hawk and will continue to test you to see if you are real.
She needs to make sure that you are sincere. I think I have posted this a gazillion times before, BUT I think it is the one thing that has pissed me off the most about this MLCBS.
WE have to make the changes. WE have to win back their trust. WE have to make them feel safe again. WE have to pray them through this. WE have to love them and forgive them.
You have come to far to be done.
((((((((hugs))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
