Thanks Cornfused I appreciate the input my friend \:\)

I guess sometimes our minds in situations like this just get clouded & not seem so clear.

Of course the house is a concern of mine as I have nowhere else to go if she changes her mind or I should say if others change her mind for her. The current houseing market here in the UK is to say the least, unbelievable. I have made enquires to how much I could either,
a: Borrow to pay my W what she would indeed want as her share, & no one will give me that kind of money

OR

B: I have looked at how much I could borrow to purchase a very small house in a very bad part of town..& again no one will lend that kind of money.

So it kinda leaves me with the prospects of renting some crappy shed like house & pay more than I can afford for it.

Sorry for dumping on ya...

Strange \:\)


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