Sorry forgot to mention this, which is important to me in my decision...Last time I saw my W (7 weeks ago) She told me she had no intentions toward this house & that she was happy for me to take the house under my sole possesion. I have seen no reason to think otherwise but it's a concern that i believe is important & in by best intrests. At the moment i can't finance the legal move towards the deeds to the house being changed, I just do not have the money.
This is what is swinging me towards calling her & asking her to choose a location where we can meet & talk.
