Thank you all for your advice. For now, I'll just continue to watch and wait. If she is having 2nd thoughts (something I remain a bit skeptical of since she has made NO moves toward reconcilation or even seeing me) I remain open. But I certainly can't wait forever for a phone call that may never come. If nothing new has happenned by say mid-july I will have to contact her lawyer and inquire as to why. I have resisted that up to now to avoid the apprearance of "temperature-taking" as Michelle puts it.

thanks again and keep talking to me please!

MJP95