Well personally if you don't want a D, I wouldn't file. Do you want to fight for your M and your W?
More importantly, are you going to CONTINUE fighting and standing FOR YOUR KIDS?
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07