Well, I think that it is such a positive that she wants to do something with you! But I think you are right not to hold your breath, allow her to move at her own pace and see what develops. You have your life and if she decides she wants to be a part of it you can decide when the time comes.
But I know how you feel! It is hard to seperate that after pretty much being the object of their anger and resentment for so long, that the little things like them wanting to talk or do something really puts you to the test.
Keep on keepin' on! Were pulling for you no matter what happens!
