I said "Enough, if you want to leave that's fine. Just don't be adding things that you know are not true. I'm tired."
I don't understand why she would try to add some more things. I already told her I am not going to hold her back any longer. If she wants to leave, she can go. I will no longer try to stop her.
We were supposed to have a session tomorrow, but i told her to cancel it. She wants to go so we can figure out how we are going to handle the kids and such. I told her if we weren't going to work on us, i didn't want to go. She had me me call the counselor and talk to her. I left a message and she hasn't call back.
Why did you cancel the appt? Why would you give her that kind of an ultimatum if you don't want a D.
Here's the deal - issue an ultimatum, but be ready for the answer/choice she makes - ANY choice she makes. Don't expect her to make the choice YOU want....KWIM?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
