"Chai Latte (cant get enough of it, I am hooked on the stuff)." Me to. especialy after a Rum N Coke night. I see your point about Gal. I have been so busy being married for the last 16 years I don't have many friends to hang out with. But I did go to a club about 2 weeks ago. Met some people. Maybe I'll see if they remember me. I was planning on going out friday or Saturday night. Sunday I'll be BBQing for my son's B day party. Another strange day for me. Here are all of our family members and not one knows what my W is doing or what I am going through.
Husband
Last edited by husband; 06/19/0712:14 AM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I also got some good news about our home (W wants to sell up). My sister is thinking about investing in it (paying out W) so that I can keep it. I reckon it would be great for DD to have the stability of keeping her home and her room. And all the stuff we have accumulated, I dread having to move elswhere.
Now wouldn't that be awesome. I'm going to work out a deal to buy out my wife of the larger of the two homes we own if our sitch gets that far (which I certainly hope it does't) for the same reason. My kids love that house (so do I) and I want to keep them in a place they feel comfortable when they are with me. Close the deal!
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
Thats good, go out and make some new friends to enjoy your time with. You need to for your own PMA.
Funny enough re Chai Latte, I never really did like cinnamon until I started drinking it. I have possibly mellowed with age, from short blacks to sissy teas..........Off to the gym to pound the s**t out of a punching bag..GRRR
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
How good would it be. I would also change the locks and alarm code. Not that I am a vindictive bastard or anything.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
Aries (March 21 - April 19) You are energetically recharged by the fiery Moon and you likely feel as if you have your act together. Nevertheless, you still might have to face tough opposition now, as someone may attempt to stop your plan from reaching fruition. Don't waste any precious energy by engaging in unnecessary battles. Proceed carefully, saving yourself for the main event.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I've been reading your sitch and nodding to myself that you seem to have it pretty much together - but I just realised today for the first time you are a fellow Aussie.
Welcome.
There are a few of us around, but not as many at the moment as there was 12 months or so ago.
I'm from Canberra.
Keep up the good work. I'll keep in touch.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
I will be visiting Canb for work on Mon and Tue. I will be venturing out to Queanbeyan for dinner (Central Cafe, love the huge mixed grill), then going to Rubees at Dickson for a Malteeser frozen custard..........yum cant wait.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
I have been having a pretty good run of things over the last few days.
W rang me yesterday from work to ask what time I was finishing (due to a severe storm warning and wanting to pick DD up earlier from afterschool care).
We had a nice chat, I told her how DD was happy and excited when I dropped her off at school for her "dress up" day. W couldn't believe that DD was happy after how poopy she was when W left for work in the morning.
I got home from work (before W and DD, she took DD rock climbing with her). When they got home, DD ran into my bedroom (I was reading) and jumped into bed to tell me that she had a go on the childrens climb. Then she asked whether she could sleep with me (which I love).
W knocked on the door and walked in, had a nice brief chat about her day etc, then she asked DD whether she wanted to sleep with her (DD declined). Then I offered to take DD to school in the morning to save her the hassle, and she said thanks.
Dropped DD off at school this morning, just got back from the gym and Chai Latte at McDonalds with a friend (they make a pretty good brew at the McCafe).
Now I will unwind a little before going to work.
All in all a good day.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
