Sara, I ahve not read your thread ,but was curious as to what kinda insight you can give me as to what went thru your H's head while the affair? Did he live w/ her? My H says he may be physically overthere at OW house,.but his mind is constantly over here w/us. what was his input on the book " After the affair". I have the book too and H has skimmed thru it while doing some "bathroom" reading but he has not mentioned it.
