And the third thing that helped. He bought me a beautiful necklace. He used to buy me nice jewelry when we were young and in love, but in the last few years he's said things like "you have enough jewelry" and refused to buy me any. But last month, one afternoon while window shopping for fun, we went into a jewelry store and he bought me a beautiful sapphire necklace. I haven't taken it off since. It meant a lot to me that he wanted to buy me something nice, and I wear it everyday to remind both of us that he loves me.