Wilson, you are right. If I do pictures, it will be only of the girls. I might also get copies of their 11 x14 senior pictures that I have in the foyer from the photographer if they are available still. He ask for some pictures of the girls on Monday. I said that I was planning on making a gift of some to him. I am glad he misses them so much. What do you mean, "discuss their dad"?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
If you were gifting him pics of when they were little, like on vacations, it would be a chance to talk with the girls about better times, and let the pics remind him.
Maybe he already has those and isn't asking for them.
the thing is he is asking for them. When I saw him Monday, that was one of his requests. I told him I was going to make a gift of them to him.
it is as if he really misses them.
That is a good thing.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Christmas 2005, I did a collage of each child which was my gift to him that year. Many of the pics were of each child with their dad. What I had done was take pictures from the time they were babies to now, cut them out and position them in a nice size frame.
Also, the kids wrote little notes to him throughout the years and I glued one in the middle of each collage.
For example the one S16 did when he was about 6 years old says:
"Dear Dad: I wish you can stay home cause if you did stay home, I will hug you and love you forever. You're the best Dad in the whole world."
The collages turned out nice. After I gave these to him, he hung them on the wall in our bedroom. So I get to look at them but I would rather have them in our bedroom then in someone else's house!
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I am busy moving. My daughter took my computer ON VACATION (grrrr the week I am moving?????) and left me hers, so I have to go through a few more hoops to log on. Add to that moving all by myself, and you have a busy woman.
I have not heard from TJ in a week. I have a feeling something is up. By up, I mean significant in his journey/life and in the long run good for me. I sent a father's day card with a check I received made out to him, and a text message late on Sunday. Uncharacteristicly, he has not responded. Something IS up. What ever it is, it will be revealed to me in time. I can be at peace that it does not involve me. I think it is some sort of movement in the tunnel or problems with the OW. All good. If you want to heave and lift in this heat, come and sweat with me. I am fine.
I have no real stress other than moving, and feeling the lonliness of doing it without TJ for the first time in 27 years. We moved 7 times together, and did it well.
So I am not going to be around for awhile. If you have my number, call me. I really am lonely. Busy, but lonely.
BTW, does anyone have any experience with "Clearwire" and satalite TV access instead of Time/Warner? My media guy is all over this one for me. Just want another oppinion. Take care, Holly.
Do Stripper poles come in 10 feet heights? I would like a purple one please.
H.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
